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Trusting your instincts

Hello little angel,

How are you? It's been a while I have written you. I travelled to Niagara this spring break. It was a nice trip. Also I had my first traffic citation here at US for overspending :P.

I was thinking about what to write today. Thought I will tell you about gut feelings. If you are a thinker, you will always think about situations or persons beforehand. Generally we think through every possibilities beforehand and make a perception of our own. Today I want to discuss with you if it is okay to perceive beforehand.

I think there is no binary answer to this question. As you grow old and think more, your perception gets better. I do agree that most of time our assumptions proves to be correct. I think that's a blessing and tragedy at same point. There's another perspective to this that I have realised lately. When one thinks deeply and makes a perception of the situation beforehand, they unconsciously starts to act upon that. And the fun part is they often don't even realise. I think that's where problem begins. Now if you are a thinker, you can not stop thinking. But what you can control is your actions. You should always act on the present situation. I believe that will also help you stopping recursive thinking. Also, if you find yourself having a quirky feeling about some person, it's always better to confront the people and let them know what bothers you. Holding anger for no reason hurts ourselves more than anybody. It's important to make sense of these feelings. It is very natural to feel this way and that is what makes us human. Also it is important to inspect them closely. Is it something about them that bothers you subconsciously or is it some truth that you can not admit? While inspecting, be fair to the person and yourself as well.

Lots of hugs.

Yours always,
Dad

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