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Trusting your instincts

Hello little angel, How are you? It's been a while I have written you. I travelled to Niagara this spring break. It was a nice trip. Also I had my first traffic citation here at US for overspending :P. I was thinking about what to write today. Thought I will tell you about gut feelings. If you are a thinker, you will always think about situations or persons beforehand. Generally we think through every possibilities beforehand and make a perception of our own. Today I want to discuss with you if it is okay to perceive beforehand. I think there is no binary answer to this question. As you grow old and think more, your perception gets better. I do agree that most of time our assumptions proves to be correct. I think that's a blessing and tragedy at same point. There's another perspective to this that I have realised lately. When one thinks deeply and makes a perception of the situation beforehand, they unconsciously starts to act upon that. And the fun part is they often don...

Selfless Help

Hi darling, There's one thing I realised today. If you noticed I always believed in helping people in all circumstances and have done that too in my capacity even beyond sometimes. But what I learnt lately is that you should always ask them before helping. Let me explain it more. Recently I have been contemplating my own life views. I always believed that helping people should be selfless. While this is may be a invaluable ornament in your character, the modern world often takes it as a sign of weakness. And that's a shame. People who loves to give, who loves to share, they do it anyway. On the other hand, people keep expecting you to give every time and eventually makes habit of it. Now when you are in a position where you are unable to help, they don't stop expecting. And that's where things go wrong. Now, honestly I do not understand their mentality nor do I am interested in analysing their thoughts. What I can tell you is from another perspective. If you are a giver...